Tips on How to Flirt Successfully

Flirting is a complicated business; some people take to it instantly and others do not. Men are notoriously bad at understanding 'signals' from women, while women often don't understand the signals from men. First, these are some signs that a person is flirting with you:

Do they look at your eyes and lips? It could be because they want to kiss you. Do they stand straighter when they see you? Do their pupils widen when they look at you? Do they smile when they see you? Do they find excuses to touch you, even in small ways like on the arm? If they are a woman, is she playing with her hair or licking her lips?

Let's talk about a few tips for flirting. Always have good personal hygiene. Without it your best efforts will remain non-starters. Don't expect a serious relationship. Most flirting is done just for fun, and most flirting will not result in anything serious. Stand up straight. Better posture makes you more attractive and pulls in any pot belly while pushing the chest out.

Relax and be happy. If you are not happy then you won't be attractive. Look the object of your affections in the eye. Don't be afraid to let your eyes wander over their body but keep your attention mostly on their face. Smile. It is one of the most attractive things you can do. If you're a woman, feel free to play with your hair or lick your lips.

Find excuses to touch them in small ways. You might find a piece of fluff on their clothes or an eyelash on their face; remove it for them. Don't use these excuses more than twice in one date; the object of your affections won't appreciate someone who is too fastidious.

If you are a man, tenderly removing an eyelash from a woman's face will increase the intimacy between you, particularly if she makes a wish and blows it away. Compliment the object of your affections. Find something nice to say about him or her, from nice hair or eyes to the way they dress.

Make an attempt to connect on more than one level. Find out whether you enjoy the same books, music, films, hobbies, sense of humour, etc. Perhaps there is something that you have always wanted to try? Share your goals. Ultimately, have fun! Fun is the basis of all flirting.

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